~Birth order Trait~

All of you think we were born in this world with trait? Do you know what the trait is means? Trait means character of the each person. The question in this topic is, what do you think is it true that we’re all purportedly born with trait or character that matches our birth order, or it is simply a made up of condition?

So in my opinion, it is true with that question which said that we’re all purportedly born with trait or character that matches our birth order but not all of our character that matches  our birth order. Sometimes, our environment also can affect our character.  I agree with that question because I will take the comparison with my siblings.

From the previous study said that, the eldest child will be more responsible, mature, often a perfectionist, a good leader, higher IQ and also low self-esteem. I think that is true because a part of the character is has by my sister which is the eldest child. But for the character which is the low self-esteem is not the character for my sister because she is very confident with what her done.

Whereas, for the middle child like me which is the fifth from the six, the character from the previous study said not an over achiever, creative, artistically inclined, often felt neglected and lack of the direction. It is same with the eldest child, which is not all the character has by the child but a part of the character only. I want to discuss about the character which is the lack of the direction. I think, the child which is born in between the eldest and youngest has more information about the direction. Direction can give many means. For me, the direction in this character is what they want to be in their life. If you are the middle child, you can ask your brother and also your sister about anything you want to know. For the example is the course you want to take at the university in the future.

Last but not least, the character for the youngest child from the previous study said that they are often get away with anything, not independent, often not taken seriously. I have the youngest sister which is the character is same with what the previous study said, but the character which is said that the youngest child is not independent is not same with the character of my youngest sister. My youngest sister is the person which is the really independent because she can manage her self for go to the school although there is no others in the house because all of us busy with our own work.

The all of the character for the eldest, middle and the youngest child that the previous study said is truly because a part of the character has by each of the child but the child is also has their own character. Their own character is form from the others factor which is the environment and also their self. So, not all of the previous study said is correct.

~THE END~


-dayah-